As I sit here I cannot help but think of all the blessings I have in my life. God has truly been so good to us. But I can remember a time in which I did not feel this way. I remember when all I could think about were the things that were wrong. (All of them were things that I could control and were my fault) When we think about all the negative things in our life it will consume us and it will suck the life out of everyone around us.
The thing I want you to understand is simple: think/remember the blessings in your life.
Psalm 107:43 says, “Let all who are wise heed these things and ponder the loving deeds of the LORD.” (TNIV) I think that is a simple concept. Scripture is telling us to look back at the things God has done for us. It is not telling us to dwell on the past and sulk in our sorrows. I encourage all of us to truly PONDER these things. (If you cannot think of something, just let me know and I will tell you the greatest thing ever)